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All You Ever Need To Know About Relationships Can Be Learned in a Dance Class

This list comes from a group that's far removed from the country dance world—"bop" is an inclusive term for related couple dances including swing, lindy, jitterbug, and shag—but it's fascinating how so many of the guidelines offered here apply to contras, squares, or English country dance.

Published by American Bop Association in November, 2003 Newsletter

  1. Lead her GENTLY and she’ll follow you anywhere. (For every ACTION there is an equal and opposite REACTION.)

  2. Never CRITICIZE YOUR DANCE PARTNER. The only person you can even consider fixing is YOU. (The person who is responsible for making the adjustment is the one who knows an adjustment is needed.)

  3. A lead is an INDICATION of some desired direction. (It’s a SUGGESTION, not DEMAND.)

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A Night to Remember

Wow! What an evening THAT was!

Northern Spy finished our monthly series with a gala 35th anniversary party on November 14, 2015. Tracy Hall was packed on Saturday night, as a large crowd turned out to celebrate the end of our dances. Included in the mix were eight former members of the band, and many, many dancers from years gone by. Spurred in part by the great publicity given the event by the Valley News, we also had a good number of beginners present.

The evening started with a potluck supper attended by more than 75 people, with entertainment provided by the Revels Teens from Revels North. Dancing began promptly at 7:30 PM, half an hour earlier to make it possible a) to squeeze more dances into the evening and b) to have plenty of time for the dessert break. (Yum! Thanks for all who brought goodies.)

We should have thought of taking a photo at the peak of the evening, but we didn't until after the break, by which point the crowd had thinned out a great deal. Still, here are some of the folks who remained, with others cleaning up the food downstairs.    Download hi-res - 2483 x 1845 pixels - 3.6 MB image here.

Group photo 2

Last spring, when Cuckoo's Nest announced the end of its dances and when Northern Spy decided that it, too, was tired or organizing its own series, we were concerned that this might spell the end of Norwich dances. As we had hoped, though, many community members stepped forward and the dancing will go forward. There's now a new website promoting dances on 2nd and 4th Saturdays, as well as an active Facebook page. The organizers are interested in presenting a mix of programs, some featuring local musicians and callers and some the bigger-name traveling bands and callers. I'll still be calling locally from time to time, including some summer dances at the Pavilion, and the various musicians from Northern Spy may appear in different configurations. In the meantime, support your local dances!

Thank you, everyone, for making the evening such an uplifting experience. Saturday night's program included a number of dances written by Ted Sannella, since that month marked the 20th anniversary of his death. Dances marked with an asterisk are shown in this video sampler from the evening. Here's what we danced:

Scout House Reel (Ted Sannella, contra)
To Turn a Phrase (Bob Isaacs, contra)
Ted's Solo Mixer (Ted Sannella, scatter mixer)
* Ted's Triplet #3 (Ted Sannella, triplet)
Young at Heart (Steve Zakon-Anderson, contra, written on the occasion of Bob McQuillen's 63rd birthday)
* Deep in the Heart of Texas (from the calling of Ralph Sweet, singing square)
* Whatchagonnado? (Erik Weberg, contra)
* Scatter Threesome (Ted Sannella, mixer)
Birdie in the Cage and Seven Hands Round (square, traditional)
Rock the Cradle Joe (Ridge Kennedy)

-- break --

Ramsay Chase (Joseph Pimentel, contra)
* Fiddleheads (Ted Sannella, contra)
* The Devil's Backbone (William Watson, 4 face 4)
Chorus Jig (traditional, contra)

Fisher's Hornpipe - Four Hands!

Wonderful piece of piano wizardry, captured by Doug Plummer and his iPhone: it's musicians Aaron Marcus and Julie Vallimont jamming on the classic Fisher's Hornpipe, four hands on one piano. Enjoy!

Good Contra and Square Dancing Defined

I recently came upon a well-written and decidedly opinionated piece about good dancing. Since the opinions reflect much of my own thinking on the subject, I'd like to draw your attention to it. Written some twenty years ago by a respected caller of contras and squares, a choreographer ("Al's Advice" is a classic contra written by Paul) and a fiddler (Volo Bogtrotters), the article presents six concise points.

"A good dancer has complete awareness of how it all fits together: the music, the calls, the figures, his/her partner, neighbor, corner, opposites, etc., the whole set, the whole floor, and, maybe most importantly, his/her own body and all its parts. There are lots of things that the good dancer does that are seemingly unknown or totally unimaginable to many twirl and barf dancers."

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Don't take the dancing too seriously

I coordinate the Square Dance History Project, which among other things helps provide me with a useful perspective on the contra dance scene. Square dancing was huge, involving far more people than today's thriving contra scene, and this at a time when the population was far smaller. I just returned from calling at the Flurry festival in Saratoga, where the main hall might have eight contra lines, each 20 or even 30 couples in length; that'd be maybe 500 people dancing in one huge and packed room. But I've spoken with square dance callers who remember calling for as many as 800 squares at one time—do the math! Some have estimated that between 15 and 30 million Americans were involved as square dancers, and the activity spread to other parts of the world.

Modern square dancing is on the decline; the reasons for that are numerous, beyond the scope of this post. I do think, though, that those of us in the contra scene might do well to be aware of that history and to learn what lessons we can.

Here's an interesting commentary from Come Square Dancing, a 48-page tabloid published in Australia in 1953, as that nation was experiencing its own square dance boom. (Those who don't want to download the entire publication can read a brief summary describing how the Australian dance scene developed.)

Just one word of warning
Square dancing is fun—clean, wholesome fun—keep it that way. Above all, don't let it become an obsession.

It has been going for a long time in the small, homey clubs, where married folks meet regularly, learn new steps, meet new friends, and generally spend a pleasant evening. That is the way square dancing began, and in that form it will continue to be popular for a very long time.

The people who rush into it madly are the people who turn it into the "craze" which eventually kills it. They are the type of people who always want to go one better than the next person. They want to join as many clubs as possible, learn new steps as fast as they can, and bring in that "competitive" spirit that destroys the friendly club atmosphere.

And don't take the dancing itself too seriously. Always remember your days as a beginner, when everyone laughed at their mistakes.

If you finish an evening's dancing feeling that you have not enjoyed yourself, one of three things is to blame:

  • The caller has insufficient ability to hold your interest;
  • The other dancers lack the cooperative spirit;
  • You yourself didn't enter into it with the right spirit.

David Millstone, Dance Caller

Lebanon, NH


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